Am I ok or not???

Lauren and Sherah-
I think the difference is that when you KNOW something is bothering you, or KNOW you need pray for something that is going wrong in your heart and DON'T say anything-you are being disobedient to the idea of community. I think that is true beauty of community, once we REALLY get to know each other, we can loving call people out on things when they themselves do not even know there is anything going on in their hearts.
There are all kinds of people in this world0I happen to be one of those people that sit around and ponder why I think this or that or why I choose this over that. That is not what other people do. They live life and don't stop to think about why-until they are faced with a major decision. I ponder EVERYTHING I think and do-it is exhausting really. I think God wired me the way he did and he wired other people differently. There is not one way to live that is more right-just different. So-as long as you are being open to what The Lord is laying on your heart to share and what HE is trying to teach you-I think you are good!

Does that make sense-or do you think I am totally off base?